inner conflict and "parts" feels special, unique, complex ... but the static standing patterns of self sabotage block the growth that would make your personal narrative compelling
atst polishing down all your spiky emotions and quirks into a smooth decent normal person DOES make you less interesting, more compressible
to create the sublime you will also create monsters and mediocrity
but worst of all would be to fall into a stereotypical failure mode, a Type of Guy who's fatal flaw elicits an eyeroll not even a second glance