imo the struggle of dating is to find someone who can take up residenc

Feb 12, 2025, 16:07 EST

imo the struggle of dating is to find someone who can take up residence in your mind https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1889782481278345545

Quoted mimi

when we meet someone we observe their appearance & behavior to infer their agent strategy, start running them in simulation, predicting their reactions as part of choosing our own social moves, playfully interacting to ground and validate the new subentity living in our mind

Feb 12, 2025, 16:28 EST

the happiness of the beloved-in-your-brain becomes part of our own utility function- hence ppl getting discouraged and breaking up over "i feel like i can't make you happy" they also reflect on our self perception- so we often idealize new relationships, complimenting ourselves…