wrt the Tea debacle... i am sympathetic to what drove someone to build it and so many women to use it (tho i didn't, lol) dating apps encourage masculine dating norms- swipe an endless stream of images to indicate "would", start many chats to make an effort for the most…
wrt "but what if the gossip is malicious and WRONG?!" .... this is why it's best done within a community where you'll have multiple sources and especially elders as intermediaries weighing the context and reputation of the source, applying their discernment and asking questions,…