@BIMBOSATTVA_ it's difficult to put into words, but like some mix of pessimism, ambiguity, unresponsiveness, confusion, unreliability, neuroticism, and lateness?
@BIMBOSATTVA_ like, saying they want to do something but then nixing all proposals with no alternative suggestions or feedback other than "meh", but then being unhappy if i don't plan anything because they were negative or noncommittal about every suggestion.