@dilanesper imo the notion that we should generalize from attraction and gender role conformity to a fixed lifelong identity is fundamentally misguided. i'm the sort of person who can fluctuate in and out of these categories - not out of attention seeking but because i don't feel "born this…
@dilanesper like, i've only realized i'm trans due to twitter - i didn't previously know that i should have a feeling of gender and that if i don't i should be labeled agender; i didn't naively realize that agender is under the trans umbrella; but apparently that's how i'm classified so i am…