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i feel like some ppl see conflict as mostly a matter of misunderstanding or a small group of bad selfish greedy people who need to be punished/excluded/idk ... i think misunderstandings and emotional reactions can exacerbate conflicts but there are also object level zero sum…
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Reply · Dec 3, 2023@NoncanonicAleae sounds like ur unhappy w the actual object level conflicts not just which way the conflicts are mediated?Tweet · Dec 3, 2023trying to frame a conflict as not a conflict causes the person on the receiving end to feel dissonance between their emotions vs what they're allowed…Reply · Feb 18, 2023@HiveMindMember zero-sum thinking, like, the belief that if one person's life is improved it must have happened at the expense of someone else- closes…Reply · Feb 3, 2023@MarkovMagnifico hmm, idk, personally I wanna read your honest takes but also I know conflict / negativity can wear out the person engaging in it