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@ih8thisplatform there are many ways to communicate a lack of interest, imo the lack of reciprocation is discouragement and should be read as such if one has low tolerance for rejection / risk of social consequences for making a pass - it isn't mysterious, just has a curve of increasing…
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Reply · Feb 2, 2023@vestiphile aww, yeah I feel like if someone isn't interested they're just not interested, not a challenge to be manipulated into attractionReply · Jan 26, 2023@motusalt @sympatheticopp 😅 ha ok i'll believe that ... it's not about how much i'm tolerated irl, it's the lack of good responses if ppl don't have…Reply · Mar 18, 2024@PrinceVogel yep true, reply without like makes me far less likely to reply to them- why engage w someone who is oblivious or resistant to a low cost…Reply · Feb 1, 2023@breaking2morrow hmm, to me there's a difference between taking an interest in the fact of their interest in something, or trying something new on…