@MunicipleOrrery maybe? i disagree with aella's approach though - the framing that women don't know what they want and lie to men is adversarial to my ability to speak for myself and have my yes be yes and no be no, so i oppose the currently salient example of it.
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Reply · Mar 18, 2024@itinerantfog yeah not debating that, more reacting to "you're not being honest with yourself" and past bad experiences i've had w men asserting they…Reply · Jan 5, 2022@RokoMijic Idk. From the female side I think this kind of stuff has always happened- what's changed is having enough power and independence to say no.Reply · Mar 23, 2026@BriannaWu @adrusi i never said it was? i'm answering the question why i don't want to be a womanReply · Jan 28, 2023@AngantyrFS nah, would be seen as too biased in favor of women, never happen