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@disharmonesia idk i can be worn down or intimidated but you're not winning points just scaring me into compliance and then i'll go no contact when i get away from the physical situation where i felt too intimidated to say no. maybe it is a me problem from physically abusive first relationship…
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Reply · Jun 23, 2023@tenobrus @gptbrooke @QiaochuYuan for me, I've done it bec of abusive relationship- didn't feel safe to say anything except what they wanted to…Reply · Jan 25, 2024@retarded_whore date rape -> abusive relationship; yeah made me anxious about rejecting men and whether they will listen when i say noReply · Mar 19, 2024@IvyAstrix not avoiding / being more assertive at saying no when first abusive bf met meReply · Nov 15, 2023@_ali_taylor yes definitely- removing physical intimidation makes it easier to argue & flirt, removing sensory issues makes it less draining than irl…