(mimi- this thread has taken on a life of it's own. Sincerely, I hope some of this helps you with potentially getting past some trust issues and expanding your possibilities for positive encounters)
I mean when I was younger I had a lot of sex the thing is it was often not that good and mixed w some very bad experiences to the point it seemed net negative and I gave up entirely for like 7 yrs till Roko talked me into dating again
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