that's definitely a part of the talking, if you talk things out first. "what do YOU want/need" - releasing, letting go, is a hard one. Often especially hard for guys because lack of restraint can have some over the top consequences. "I don't want needy, mister" is a valid statement to make
sigh, I hate when guys get into "trying not to cum" mode bec then they're not fully present... either disconnected jackhammering while avoiding eye contact or start and stop and start and stop increasingly caught up in their own self-monitoring not me
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Reply · Oct 25, 2024@vaporous_ford yeah i would talk myself out of it if the guy doesn't seem reasonably enthusiastic about meReply · Nov 12, 2023@YeshuaisSavior @Aella_Girl lol u wish... if u wanna know, for me it's if i'm having a good conversation w a guy for 2+ hrs, feeling like we…Reply · Nov 29, 2023@BadMan98368882 well, in an ideal world it wouldn't be.... but if the guy's visible yearning & possessiveness is becoming a problem..?Reply · Oct 20, 2022@chrisgardenuk @flybottlemist @harveytweetman You just don’t hear as much whining because it’s a negative signal… I’ve literally had guys DM and…