Grey area to some degree. If it's primarily instrumental "my life would be easier if I were a dude", I don't think you're trans. If you'd be happier being a dude even if being a dude kinda sucked, I think that's where I'd draw the line. Morseo if being called a "woman" feels like a category error.
being called a woman feels accurate bec of the biological realities of my body, it feels irrelevant as a label for my mind or soul or something
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