You might be in the cis by default category. Would being seen as a man (or some other thing) feel better, even if it caused problems for you?
idk I want to be seen as a person rather than a gender ig, but also being perceived as a woman in public is dangerous
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Reply · Jun 4, 2024@TomboyTesting interestingly a majority of cis ppl say they feel "cis by default" without strong feelings about their genderReply · Apr 27, 2023wait what's wrong with being a cis egirl?Reply · Sep 4, 2025@realtimeai yeah but like, internalized to the point where ppl care very deeply about being perceived as belonging to those categories. but i don't…Reply · Jul 13, 2023I think because being judged for not conforming makes you very aware of the roles you're violating