yeah I get it... just thinking in terms of choice and who kinda opts in to conflict... or like, some ppl feel like their thread, their replies are their territory to moderate
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Reply · Jan 2, 2023@quotidiania I get that it’s a burden on you to moderate it, but it feels kinda controlling to mandate that ppl not make certain replies… it’s often…Reply · Jun 23, 2023@tunient yeahhhh.... I def don't feel responsible for moderating replies- I don't even read them all! so it kinda annoys me this idea that if you post…Reply · Jun 16, 2023I kinda hate this bec it creates the expectation of moderation by OP and then most likely being bullied for anything anyone says in your replies if…Reply · Mar 16, 2024@Nominus9 this is something i've only realized through my time here- there will always be disputes n conflicts erupting in a group and trying to be a…