how do you know if you're truly not interested in getting to know someone better online? feels like I let too much one-sided interaction continue and don't say anything bec idk how I feel- I don't have clear arguments against someone, just a lack of enthusiasm to respond to them
and the "ehh" feeling makes me pull away from entire apps, just kinda passively scroll and keep quiet, feels like inviting attention to say anything at all... and then I'm lonely for all the other interaction I *did* enjoy
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Tweet · Jul 7, 2023if someone dislikes you online, which response would you prefer?Reply · Jan 14, 2022@deepfates Lol, I just mentally translate this behavior to "this person is more interested in average internet content than in interacting with me"…Reply · Sep 28, 2026@ih8thisplatform there are many ways to communicate a lack of interest, imo the lack of reciprocation is discouragement and should be read as such if…Reply · Feb 2, 2023@vestiphile aww, yeah I feel like if someone isn't interested they're just not interested, not a challenge to be manipulated into attraction