how do you know if you're truly not interested in getting to know someone better online? feels like I let too much one-sided interaction continue and don't say anything bec idk how I feel- I don't have clear arguments against someone, just a lack of enthusiasm to respond to them
and the "ehh" feeling makes me pull away from entire apps, just kinda passively scroll and keep quiet, feels like inviting attention to say anything at all... and then I'm lonely for all the other interaction I *did* enjoy
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Tweet · Oct 19, 2023thing that's been bothering me for awhile now... I feel like most ppl aren't interested in the same topics as me- I'll overhear conversations in…Reply · Jan 14, 2022@deepfates Lol, I just mentally translate this behavior to "this person is more interested in average internet content than in interacting with me"…Reply · Oct 2, 2023@DemonSynth I guess I'm kinda passive, so ppl who choose to just engage w me a lot persistently regardless of how unresponsive I am... and yet it…Reply · Feb 2, 2023@vestiphile aww, yeah I feel like if someone isn't interested they're just not interested, not a challenge to be manipulated into attraction