I also feel anxiety abt some ppl's sexual / romantic pursuit of me, esp if they're not really listening & understanding me & if they persist when I've tried to discourage... and maybe this is bec of past trauma, maybe by gender change I just want to not be a parasocial target?
result is that I often dislike the gendered way ppl engage w me here- condescending, negging, claiming ownership, bossing me around, treating me as irrational or like a child, assuming I need someone to provide for me, assuming I want babies, assuming I'm non-technical
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Reply · Jul 7, 2023Ah this... I have actually received quite a lot of feedback about this and still idk... I don't really fit into the "woman" gender role and don't like…Reply · Jul 7, 2023@Tapeda_ it's strange but I feel like "telling ppl exactly how I want to be treated n perceived" is too feminine for me?Reply · Jun 14, 2023@ThatShawGuy @YosarianTwo haha... I struggle w all of this bec explaining a niche gender identity feels like "not me", but being treated as a woman…Reply · Jun 8, 2023@AndreasLinder10 the feeling that when ppl talk abt their identity as a woman they are describing a lot of things that I'm not at all