@lumpenspace otoh, seeing something of myself in a friend often stimulates personal growth and as I described yesterday I feel a mismatch of interests & perspectives w most ppl I meet. perhaps I'd feel differently if I had at least one friend who seemed to have a similar identity
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Reply · Mar 16, 2024@nominalthoughts I mean meeting someone new, tho tbh also i am less friendly irl and know ppl from different contexts who might have different…Reply · Dec 12, 2023@Spencer_Gray i'm more observing that the most interesting ppl here are the ones who do their own thing their own way, have their own perspective /…Reply · Oct 9, 2022@elfathewitch Yeah, particularly when I’ve previously been described as a loner and antisocial. Finding people on the same wavelength is a blessing,…Reply · Jun 8, 2023@inerati interesting, I just have the guy friends and feel like female friendships I've had are kinda superficial & activity focused