@SonyaTwete @animalologist sounds like a great relationship!!! I think taco & I are talking about the bad form of idealizing & "putting on a pedestal" which is what ppl are gesturing at when they say not to do it?
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Reply · Jul 29, 2023@somewheresy 🤷♀️ idk, I think ppl idealize romantic connection at the expense of other forms of relationshipsReply · Nov 17, 2023@animalologist @SonyaTwete so true.... insisting on seeing them as perfect is kinda lying to yourself & pressuring them to *be* perfect in every way…Reply · Feb 8, 2024@animalologist @DariasRucker wait we need relationship chat to gossip way too much abt respective boytoys without irritating ppl on the TL ...Reply · Jun 27, 2025@TSBurkhardt i think it's better to fail fast! like, i'm a vegan, i think it's perfectly fine and appropriate for the other person to ask me about my…