@animalologist @SonyaTwete also imo fucks up intimacy if you can't really be vulnerable about mistakes & flaws... ofc is also bad to bond over flaws & weaknesses, becomes super dysfunctional barrier to growth 🤔
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Reply · Sep 4, 2024@gmamoon888 terrible feeling but also important, real intimacy only happens when you're really seeing each otherPersonal reflectionReply · Nov 15, 2023@bobz44 the question is whether you're ok with being wrong & losing arguments or not, imo... otherwise you're expecting the woman to know better and…Reply · Sep 29, 2024@amirism_ go deeper & put us in more intense intimate situations where they'll see my flaws too ... travel can be good, or spending time w childhood…Personal reflectionReply · Nov 17, 2023@animalologist @SonyaTwete so true.... insisting on seeing them as perfect is kinda lying to yourself & pressuring them to *be* perfect in every way…