ig w e/acc ppl i've had nerdy arguments w lots of ppl and witnessed uglier fights, but they feel psychologically safe, like there's a community who try to intermediate & deescalate, & ppl cool off and get over things & reorient to shared goal of e/acc future
i super respect e/acc ppl like @bayeslord and @entelechiada who have overwhelmingly positive vibes but are not afraid of speaking their mind and being disagreeable ... yet without getting emotional themselves when other ppl getting heated