funny thing is this works as a filter even when talking about it- men who want mutual enjoyment are reassured by the idea
Quoted mimi

@Aella_Girl being responsive but not reactive... due to past trauma I will always "tap the brakes" at least once before fully letting go with someone new... it can be a very subtle thing, I tense up and they notice and hesitate, that reaction is reassuring... vs if they're oblivious Ill…

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