@ShadowyZephyr @SkyeSharkie @tautologer yeah, idk what to do about this but if someone just walks up and asks me cold "wanna have sex?" the answer is 100% no because the question without indirect warmup feels like the person just stomped on my foot so i'm in no mood to have anything further to do with them.
@ShadowyZephyr @SkyeSharkie @tautologer maybe this should be treated as a different sexual orientation? i should reply "no i'm normiesexual"? but the damage is already done, i'm already subconsciously making a negative association with that person for what feels like trespass. and it is all avoidable, if they'd…
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Quote tweet · Apr 24, 2024😵💫 at what point should you ask the person you're dating if they're being shy or just not into sex?Reply · Feb 28, 2023@twofifteenam haha no but I liked that it might elicit this questionReply · Jul 12, 2023@KojimaErgoSum ha I'm not quite sure, hence the questions... apparently more of a needy mindset when you've not had sex in awhile?Reply · Nov 18, 2024@nobuhojimichaan 🥺 ... i'm not actually planning on casual sex, but laughing at myself w friends seems like a good distraction