@ShadowyZephyr @SkyeSharkie @tautologer yeah, idk what to do about this but if someone just walks up and asks me cold "wanna have sex?" the answer is 100% no because the question without indirect warmup feels like the person just stomped on my foot so i'm in no mood to have anything further to do with them.
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@ShadowyZephyr @SkyeSharkie @tautologer maybe this should be treated as a different sexual orientation? i should reply "no i'm normiesexual"? but the damage is already done, i'm already subconsciously making a negative association with that person for what feels like trespass. and it is all avoidable, if they'd…
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