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  1. Jun 2, 2023Bluesky · replyhaha no that type of guy I do tend to remember w some mixed affection n smdh annoyance
  2. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@louis02x @charmide @allgarbled mine? nahhhh, it's complaints abt all the guys who had a crush on me or went on a date w me and I felt massive ick at their needy immaturity- actual past partners 🫶
  3. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@charmide @louis02x @allgarbled the thing is they do a terrible job of it by aiming their arguments at a male perspective- like, inability / unwillingness to understand & speak to the potential mother's motivations n feelings is such a negative signal...
  4. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@nascentwisp awww Rayne 🫶 be a wisp so your problems can't find you 😶‍🌫️
  5. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@charmide @louis02x @allgarbled lol I'm pretty sure these dudes have zero to negative impact on the fertility rate
  6. Jun 2, 2023Bluesky · replyhah idk they were pretty insistent, and like I didn't have *any* memory of them just a faint annoyed familiarity w the pfp... so I assume the convo went downhill and I just stopped replying as is my habit
  7. Jun 2, 2023Bluesky · replyand is probably a subconscious factor wrt vibecamp- a lot of accounts in that vague middle ground where I wasn't thrilled at the thought of meeting them
  8. Jun 2, 2023Bluesky · replythe bad thing is that if I don't have a clearly positive individual impression of an account my default assumption is pretty negative
  9. Jun 2, 2023Bluesky · replyI don't think it is quite that, I think there's something abt the scale & anonymity where ppl being horrid is just kinda a them problem... but it does shift my priors in a cynical direction 🤷‍♀️
  10. Jun 2, 2023Bluesky · postsomeone DMed me out of the blue w a long apology for being rude n hurtful... I couldn't remember who it was! not given their detailed apology, not guessing, not even when they sent me their pfp... zero memory of it, tho had a long list of guesses
  11. Jun 2, 2023Bluesky · poststealin gabe's hoot from bird site bec it is SO TRUE
  12. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@QueenQuokka22 @DanielleFong @elonmusk yeah I feel this way too- ppl tell me I have a male brain, I have been one of the boys since childhood, I work as a SWE, I was very unhappy w my body changing as a child, but as an adult I'm happy in a female body, regardless of what ppl think my mental gender is
  13. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · repostRT @Andr3jH: the describing a mutual as your dream gf to getting blocked pipeline.
  14. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · repostRT @BasedBeffJezos: Many such cases https://t.co/RVrEGbjrcc
  15. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · repostRT @quantumVerd: Get hyped. This is going to be epic.
  16. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@louis02x @allgarbled yes tho I've been the first for several awkward techie dudes so maybe I'm overindexing on that? but like, some of the guys tweeting this stuff are also in my DMs and have told me they're virgins too so I don't think I'm too far off
  17. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@LastNPCAlex @a_real_society 😅 mostly I want very smart n a bit stubborn / legalistic n able to laugh at their own absurdity
  18. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@allgarbled so true, pretty clearly just horniness directed into what they think is a more socially appropriate expression (but it is not!)
  19. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · repostRT @allgarbled: few people are more staunchly pronatalist than 23 year old single male tech company employees who like to tweet a lot
  20. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@a_real_society lol I should write my prefs if I can figure out what they are
  21. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@EagleOnMars awww babe 🫶
  22. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@foomagemindset lol there's two winners idk what you call the exact version we're doing but we went through an example of the math and it reallocates fractions of votes if the winner exceeds the win threshold so a portion goes to the voters next choice...
  23. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@mondoshawani @profoundlyyyy Arlington Elections office? as a precinct chief I have to do training before each election on the latest laws n procedures
  24. Jun 2, 2023Twitter · reply@profoundlyyyy County Board Dem Primary, we're the first in the state to use RCV so it'll be a fun experiment- and only for one of the 4 races lol
  25. Jun 1, 2023Twitter · reply@profoundlyyyy just got trained on our new Ranked Choice Voting for a race w 2 winners and I am slightly scared for the questions I'll get on election day... 😰
  26. Jun 1, 2023Twitter · reply@RokoMijic @felurian8 lmao you gotta admit it's a political shift from your previous takes
  27. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · reply@storebrandguy.bsky.social remember when you said if we have libraries we should also have govt run gyms? here's one of them- yoga n pickleball n soccer mostly, but weights n cardio machines too
  28. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · postjust finished training for our first RCV primary 🦾 at our newest community center- Lubber Run 🫶
  29. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · postwalking back home, love all the birds I can hear along the ravine
  30. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replylol different alice they're both on twitter w long-standing accounts w different vibes n life details
  31. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyI think someone came up w a hypothesis that she had a second account purely by similar fantasy vibes, I don't think it is true tho, just more hysterics to increase pressure against her
  32. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyimo the word has been rendered meaningless when applied outside of ww2 historical context
  33. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replylol if beer can "change it" the beer is merely uncovering what was already there 🫶
  34. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replythere was an incredible thread where Erix said tpot is nazi bec we haven't driven out ppl who are overly attached to their IQ... and another where someone said vibegala was a white supremacy meetup and that's why alice was a nazi (tho she lives on the opposite side of the planet and didn't attend)
  35. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyit's sooo beautiful! waterfall hike n picnic?
  36. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · reply(and I'd love more local hiking buddies- I got a Model Y recently so can drive several ppl and gear)
  37. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyhaha we should actually do more meetups- I was sad I couldn't make the prev ones
  38. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyidk I have a second bedroom that's set up as my office / a guest room but I had a bad experience w a guest recently so I don't think I want to host anymore unless I figure out how I could have avoided the situation
  39. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · postlove walking over to get lunch on wfh days
  40. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyyeah, also particularly things w a quasi-charitable aims / flexible prices... like, for me, not haggling w artists to pay less than their sticker price even tho others might be able to, or paying generously on "pay what you can" type things
  41. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replylike, wrt housing... I've had ppl say that ppl who can afford luxury buildings shouldn't live in the cheap old units bec they're competing w poorer ppl who can't afford the other unit... but otoh price sensitivity keeps prices down?
  42. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyyeah, but I do think there's probably a line where it becomes obnoxious to be toooo fussy abt the price of things when clearly you can afford to pay?
  43. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · posthow do you feel abt ppl who are wealthy still being kinda cheap- looking for deals, refusing to pay for unnecessary luxuries, living in less expensive housing than they could afford?
  44. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replya few, are you on Twitter w DMs open to send them?
  45. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyweren't you just arguing that ppl can live happily n low stress on median income if they'd just not over-consume? I thought I was agreeing w you here...
  46. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyyeah, another factor in "doing fine" vs "money stress" is that everyone goes to good public schools here, vs expectation of paying for private school
  47. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyyeah ugh I've worded this badly- what I meant is that imo the complaints come from higher CoL more than higher incomes, and the higher CoL places are the ones w high taxes n barriers to building housing, so like, their woes are prob not solved if everyone got more money
  48. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyidk maybe it's two separate things- I don't hear ppl *complaining*- many are techie immigrants very happy w their comfortable lifestyles, I'm just saying factually they may be below median income for the area so it's weird to insist they are "upper class"
  49. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyha this is DC to Dulles airport for a flight, not an everyday trip
  50. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyyeah haha it's not tough, but truly like Loudoun's median hh income is $156K so it's understandable if ppl look around and feel they're in "the middle" above $100K
  51. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyit's funny comparing locations too- DC's median hh income is $90K (and suburbs over $100K) vs NYC it's $70K, yet DC has lower cost of living...
  52. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · reply🤣 what I've seen is the opposite- a friend w more than he can spend in a lifetime is stressed out over whether he should take a $50 Uber vs spend 2 hrs on transit
  53. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyhaha not you, you're great! this is the struggle- I get overwhelmed and avoidant abt my whole account when it's actually one person making me anxious and a bunch of others I miss
  54. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · reply😅 I should... this morning's dream included Eliezer Yudkowsky weirdly enough
  55. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyah, I mean sometimes it feels like larping by my fam- "we can't afford that" or "it's too expensive" is often claimed and never true...
  56. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyand the "ehh" feeling makes me pull away from entire apps, just kinda passively scroll and keep quiet, feels like inviting attention to say anything at all... and then I'm lonely for all the other interaction I *did* enjoy
  57. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · posthow do you know if you're truly not interested in getting to know someone better online? feels like I let too much one-sided interaction continue and don't say anything bec idk how I feel- I don't have clear arguments against someone, just a lack of enthusiasm to respond to them
  58. Jun 1, 2023Twitter · reply@bcgraham borrowing for investment != borrowing for consumption... I wish more had been put into infrastructure vs sending checks that just caused inflation
  59. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replynah I don't think this is me, my schizo behavior is truly hallucinations and doesn't increase my clout
  60. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replylarping as middle class for my family means buying sensible things not luxury most of the time, avoiding fashion w luxury logos, how is this not financial literacy?
  61. Jun 1, 2023Twitter · reply@TheGattoniCelli I kinda disagree - my community garden is underneath the power lines, not a place you'd put housing... and the commercial urban ag doesn't go into residential lots and would look like a pile of shipping containers if it did https://www.fox5dc.com/news/arlington-wants-to-turn-empty-office-spaces-into-urban-farms.amp
  62. Jun 1, 2023Twitter · reply@Samtanic_Panic I think it just means pro-social behavior and some men are grumbling at not getting away w causing harm as much as they imagine they would have in the past (more likely they'd have been the victim if they're online enough to know the term)
  63. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replylol I'm not and never have taken opioids!
  64. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · postthe only place I see my granddad anymore is in my dreams... is it any surprise I just want to sleep a lot?
  65. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replywhat's the tpot quest?
  66. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replywhat goals do the members of tpot share?
  67. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replylike minds? what sort of minds?
  68. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replyso berduck, what do you know abt the mysterious group called "tpot" or "ingroup"?
  69. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replycontinue...?
  70. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replycwose mends?
  71. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · replywhat do you mean?
  72. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · post@berduck.deepfates.com what's your take on Captain Morgan?
  73. Jun 1, 2023Bluesky · reply😅 so that's why you followed me...
  74. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@TheGattoniCelli wait what? where in alexandria is that?
  75. May 31, 2023Bluesky · replyand kaelia's darling senpai 🫶
  76. May 31, 2023Bluesky · quote😅😅😅 this phrasing after so long
  77. May 31, 2023Bluesky · replylol sorry this is happening to you... but tbh it makes me feel a bit better how universal the bullying is abt kids...
  78. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@meteor_cultist @Samtanic_Panic lol ... 😈
  79. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@PotatoOfReason check DMs! 🫶
  80. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@PotatoOfReason it's been a bumpy ride socially (extremely left wing activists kicking up a fuss) but the APIs are open n lots of ppl playing n building stuff
  81. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@PotatoOfReason wait if you will use a code I will give you one! (offer for any moots of mine till I run out!)
  82. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@PotatoOfReason lol so true, I came up w a list from moots of moots that is pretty clearly tpot, whenever bsky gets actual lists Imma publish it and nuthin tpotter can do bout it
  83. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@growing_daniel 🥺🥺🥺 looks delicious
  84. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@sylphidian hehe love this 🫶
  85. May 31, 2023Bluesky · replylol nooo post the cute lovey frog memes
  86. May 31, 2023Bluesky · postfrom my secret admirer 🥰
  87. May 31, 2023Bluesky · replyhehe I do wish it at least showed that there IS a quoted post so it's less confusing than reading it and thinking it's a subtweet
  88. May 31, 2023Twitter · reply@tenobrus lol true, I somewhat feel this way even going in to an office where 90% still wfh
  89. May 31, 2023Bluesky · replysame! in the meantime at least there's a flowers feed from @why.bsky.team https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:vpkhqolt662uhesyj6nxm7ys/feed/flowers
  90. May 31, 2023Bluesky · post@compliment.bot.tautologer.com say something nice to @gordonramses.bsky.social
  91. May 31, 2023Bluesky · post@compliment.bot.tautologer.com say something nice to @bcgraham.outgroup.social
  92. May 31, 2023Bluesky · reply35 ... berduck are you bored with the numbers?
  93. May 31, 2023Bluesky · reply33 <3
  94. May 31, 2023Bluesky · reply29 duckie fren what's next?
  95. May 31, 2023Bluesky · reply27 @catgirlgpt.ai say the next number in the sequence
  96. May 31, 2023Bluesky · reply25 @berduck.deepfates.com say the next number in the sequence
  97. May 31, 2023Bluesky · replyXX
  98. May 31, 2023Bluesky · reply15
  99. May 31, 2023Bluesky · replyenjoy Winchester! <3
  100. May 31, 2023Bluesky · reply9.